Frequently Asked Questions

Are all women in the Catalogues real?

Yes, all our women are real. We have a Russian version of our site where we are informing that: “all women can send us information and pictures of themselves, for publishing it in both English and Norwegian languages". This means that all women are available and serious looking for new and stable relationship. If we get information from men that any of our women tried to scam him or was unserious regarding relationship, after some investigation such women will be deleted without a right to be presented again on our pages. We are trying to check all of our women, and we are cooperating with several Anti-Scam agencies.

Do you only have women from Russia on your pages?

No, we have women from all former Russian republics, we have women who are living in Europe, Israel, USA, Canada and other countries, but all of these women have Russian or former Russian republics background and all of them are seriously looking for Western men.

How can I pay for an address or for membership?

You can choose between two ways of paying for the order:

• Credit card/Visa via the PayPal system. This is the quickest way, and it takes 15-30 minutes from the time you placed an order until we receive confirmation of the payment. We will send you the requested information as soon as we have this confirmation.
• Direct transfer of payment through bank to our bank account No. 1638 09 00851 (SWIFF code UBNONOKK) in Norway. Fill out the purchase order, and as soon as we will receive a confirmed statement from the bank regarding your payment, you will get the information you requested. This method takes normally 1-3 days. It can take some longer from a country outside Scandinavia.

A woman in my country usually looks for men who are living locally, but what about Russian women? Will they be interested to be with someone so far away? How can I be sure that if relationship will work out, she will want to move from her home and her family?

We are only presenting women on our pages that are serious looking for men abroad. They seriously only want relationship and marriage. So, you should not worry about it, but just for your assurance, we suggest you to raise this question on the first stage of your communication, so that you both will understand clearly that it's a lot of feelings that will be involved, and there is a lot of serious decision to be made.

I am 50 years old, but I want to find a young woman for a relationship. It was impossible to do in my country, so I decided to look for a Russian woman. I heard that age difference is no matter for them. Is it true and why?

Russian women usually prefer to have a husband who is older then themselves. It is considered that an older man will understand them better, will be able to appreciate his wife and support her, not only financially, but morally as well. Russian women mature intellectually quicker than Russian men. At the age of about 18-20 they are ready to create a family and have children. So, age difference is not a problem for Russian women. They feel more secure with men who are older by at least 5-10 years.

Why do you have two categories of catalogues, where one is free of charge, and the other only for members?

In the FREE catalogue we are publishing women who paid for this service. They decided to hurry up the process by giving you the possibility to contact them as soon as possible, and for free! These women gets very good response from men, of course they have a big choice and the possibility to find the right man for them. Most of the women in Russia and the former USSR don't have the possibility to pay extra for our services. After a lot of letters from women who asked us to open a free service for them, we decided to help and that is why we are offering a membership in our Gentlemen's Club. In this club the gentlemen are paying for the right to contact these ladies.

How often do you update your Catalogues?

We are trying to update catalogues in our Gentlemen's Club regularly, at least once in 3-4 days, but adding between 20 and 80 women, in general 150-200 of new women per month. FREE catalogues we are updating as soon as we are receiving requests from women, who want to use this opportunity and our services.

I want to write to some of your ladies. Do they have to pay to write me back?

No, we are not charging women for this. It is up to them to answer you or not. We are not involved in the process of correspondence.

I want to make a good impression with my first letter to a lady I like, but I am not sure what should I write in this letter to somebody I don't even know.

If you want to make an impression as a man with serious intensions, include your full name and date of birth, height and weight, your occupation and your status in your first letter. Don't write how perfect you are and what material things you have in your life, just write why you chose precisely this woman, and why you want to know exactly her better. Include your picture of good quality, where it's  possible to see your face. We emphasize specially to include a picture. It means just as much for her as for you. Please avoid sending half naked pictures with the first letter - it makes very bad impression.

I have sent a letter to a lady I really liked, but she hasn't answered back to me, should I give up, or try again.

First of all you have to remember that to have Internet at home is still a luxury thing for many Russians, so give her at least 3-4 days to answer back to you. If you didn't receive an answer, try to send a small message - just do double check if she got your first letter. It could happen that letter was lost by an Internet provider and therefore didn't know that you wrote to her.

I want to send flowers to a woman I like, but I don't know how I can do it when she is in Russia and I am so far from her?

Well, we can help you here as well. Our agency has an agreement with an International Flower Delivery Company, and you can send flowers to your lady in a very easy and quick way. Just follow the link Flower delivery in the menu, fill out the necessary information, and pay for the flowers plus the delivery. The flowers will be delivered in any city of Russia or CIS.

What should I do if after some correspondence understands that this is not what I was looking for, and I want to end correspondence with a lady?

Be polite and don't disappear without explanations. Our women are serious and they can be deeply attracted by you even after a few letters, so don't break hearts and hopes. Write a letter and inform a woman about your decision. It will also allow the woman to focus her attention on men she wants to correspond with, without having bad feelings to you. Remember, you in a way represent the men in which country you come from. It's easy to make stereotypes.

If   I write to some ladies, how many will answer back to me?

Usually you will get from 80 to 90% answers back.

I liked one of the ladies on your pages, but in her ad say that she is looking for a man till 45, I am 50 years old. What should I do?

We recommend you to write to her in spite of that. Everything is individual, so if you are determined and have serious intentions - it will depend on you if you will be able to conquer her attention. Just don't give up on something you really want! (a good motto for life in general).

Is it OK to send money to the women I am writing with?

No, we strongly recommend you not to send any money or gifts to women you don't really know. First try to know a lady you are writing to, be sure that she is interested in you, not just you being a foreigner.