If
and when
you like somebody in our web page, you probably
want to write her.
Think over it at least twice why you want to do
it and if you really are looking for a serious
relationship that might lead to a marriage. Are
you sure you want to do this?
If you just want to
find a friend for correspondence and for getting
some information about country, culture, etc.
maybe you should look another place, because all
of our women presented at the
DiOritz
web page are looking for a marriage-minded men.
You probably have some questions, like: Why all
these women are looking for a partner abroad,
and not in their own country?
Good question, and we have an answer for you!
There are different reasons for this:
First of all, there are not enough men in Russia
to find a suitable partner. It is among several
reasons a simple fact that also work and economy
problems are among the reasons.
It’s difficult to raise a family under such
conditions, and the use of alcohol among many of
the Russian men makes it even more difficult.
Men in Russia differs from men of western
countries, and probably this is the main reason
why it is popular to search for a partner in the
west.
Most of the western men are looking for a good
wife, but also a good friend and partner, a
woman who will walk with him through both rough
and good times. They want a woman who will
support him and understand him. This is exactly
what Russian women are missing in their
relationship with men in their own country.
To begin a correspondence with a woman from
Russia or former USSR, you have to understand
that it will not be easy and not fast.
Most of the women don’t have computers at home
and therefore no Internet access.
Some women can access internet through an
Internet café to correspond you, but
certainly not all of them.
Understanding and a bit patience from your side
will probably be a helpful gesture.
All in all, this means it will take some days
for her to give an answer to your letters.
Here are some small secrets what should you and
should not do in the correspondence with Russian
women and we hope it will help
you one day.
If you are
going to send your woman a first picture of yourself – DON’T send a
picture in the swimming suit or with half naked body – An
intelligent and serious woman will never understand this and most probably
will not want to answer you afterwards.
DON’T send
pictures of your houses, cars or boats on the first stages of your
correspondence - it will look like you are trying to buy a woman and not
want her to fall in love with you for who you are.
When you are
writing a first letter to a woman - please, try to make it more than just
a line or two. Women like attention and your more details letter and what
is most important with the right name will help you to attract woman’s
attention.
DON’T ask
woman about sex priorities and fantasies in the first letter. Maybe it’s
OK to discuss it on later stage, but it’s not common in Russia to open
your heart and thoughts to a stranger at once.
